July 5, 2024 – Welcome to Everyday Philosophy, the column where we use insights from the history of philosophy to help navigate the daily dilemmas of modern life. This week, we delve into the age-old question: Is it better to forget your past or keep revisiting it?
The Dilemma
A reader named Dee from the US shares her conflicting thoughts about letting go of the past and repressing negative feelings. She asks whether documenting bad experiences in personal writing, a diary, or poetry helps in the long run. This question leads us to explore the perspectives of two renowned philosophers: Friedrich Nietzsche and Edmund Burke.
Kant’s Manservant: A Lesson in Forgetting
Immanuel Kant, a strict and austere man, had a deep bond with his manservant Martin Lampe. After forty years of companionship, an incident (the details of which remain unclear) led Kant to part ways with Lampe. Devastated by this loss, Kant pinned a note above his desk that read, “Forget Lampe.” This daily reminder to forget shows the difficulty and irony of trying to force oneself to forget.
Nietzsche: Embrace Selective Forgetting
Friedrich Nietzsche offers a different perspective. He suggests that sometimes forgetting is an act of self-creation. Nietzsche argues that animals live in the moment, unburdened by past mistakes or regrets. This “unhistorical” way of living allows them to move forward without the weight of memory.
Nietzsche advises us to view the past as a resource. If reminiscing about the past makes us stronger and better, we should embrace it. However, if it weakens us, it’s better to let it go. His philosophy can be summarized as: “If you’re better off forgetting, do so. If it makes you stronger, remember.”
Burke: The Beauty of Trauma
Edmund Burke, writing a century before Nietzsche, offers an intriguing take. He introduces the concept of the “sublime,” an aesthetic experience that evokes both delight and horror. Burke suggests that revisiting traumatic experiences can provide a similar aesthetic pleasure. By confronting our past, we experience a safe yet powerful connection to our darkest memories.
Burke’s view treats our past as an artifact in a museum, something to appraise and appreciate from a safe distance. This perspective highlights the potential beauty in reliving trauma and finding value in our suffering.
Practical Advice
Ultimately, the answer to whether we should forget or revisit our past depends on the individual and their specific experiences. Nietzsche’s advice offers a practical approach: assess whether revisiting the past makes you stronger or weaker. If therapy, writing, or discussing past experiences leads to personal growth, continue doing so. If not, it might be time to move on and forget.
This philosophical exploration provides valuable insights into managing our past. Whether through Nietzsche’s selective forgetting or Burke’s appreciation of the sublime, we can find ways to navigate our memories and shape our future.
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